Love is essential at every age, but it may take different forms as children grow up. Parents may show love to toddlers by reading them bedtime stories, cuddling them when they fall, and giving hugs and kisses. Love for older children may take the form of help with homework, rides to rehearsals, and appropriate physical affection. For teenagers, love might evolve to include staying up late to hear how a date went, allowing more verbal give-and-take, and patiently listening to concerns and problems. As children transition into young adulthood, parents might show love through supportive texts, giving advice when asked, or talking through big decisions.
Book of Mormon Examples
The story of Jesus visiting the land of Bountiful includes examples of love, limits, and latitude that might be helpful to think about:
A small voice (3 Nephi 11:3). God used a soft voice. We can also avoid yelling at our children. A small voice can have a powerful effect at home.
An expression of love (3 Nephi 11:7). God spoke about how He loved His Son. Our children need to hear love and affection expressed verbally.
Physical touch (3 Nephi 11:14). As a witness of His love, the Savior allowed each person to touch Him. Appropriate physical touch can let our children know we love them.
Teaching and correction (3 Nephi 11:31; 18:34). Much of the Savior’s visit was spent teaching. He didn’t leave this important job only to His disciples.
Time together (3 Nephi 17:5–8). Jesus didn’t rush off as soon as possible. Do we spend time with our children?
Listening (3 Nephi 26:14). This scene with the Savior reminds us that, given the opportunity to speak, children can often teach their parents.
A decision (3 Nephi 28:1). The Lord made expectations clear but then allowed people to make decisions. Do we follow that example with our children?
A period of peace (4 Nephi). The Savior’s visit resulted in a remarkable period of peace. As we follow the examples above and lovingly set boundaries, teach correct principles, and then let children make decisions, we can foster greater peace in our homes.
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